Irreplaceable Mary – Quiet Leadership

Mary is 68 and recently retired. She was a bench technician and has worked in our facilities in both North America and Europe. Before her retirement a new team member pointed out that Mary was the first to come up and welcome her. As well, she noticed that Mary quietly picked up after a number of people; put the dishes away and wiped the lunch tables. No drama; just did it because she wanted to and could.

We will miss Mary, not just for her technical skills but because she has a perpetual smile, a twinkle in that Irish eye, and awareness of her value as a team mate. She treats others with respect and care. She is a leader by quiet example and giving of herself every day. (I know a little about Mary and she has had enough personal challenges that would “justify” her feeling sorry for herself and bitter about the cards dealt her.)

Mary is unique and irreplaceable in a personal way. But the attribute of quiet leadership and respectful giving is open and available to us all. We can all be like Mary. Thank you for quietly setting an example and caring every day.

with Character,

Lorne

A Year of Living Generously

That’s the title of Lawrence Scanlan’s book; his experiences hop-scotching charities. His experiences and observation reinforces the sense of purpose and fulfillment generated from helping others. What does it mean to give?

Giving comes from a sense of believing that we have enough to give; acting abundant. While there are the big, broad strokes of generosity, so much can be achieved by continuous “drops” of little things.

During our many hours of work we can lend a hand on a project, get someone a glass of water, pass on a tip on a software application and on and on. However, what I’m describing is more than simple courtesy. Acting with Character is being conscious and present while proactively choosing to live with abundance.

Try a day of living generously at work.

with Character,

Lorne

Lorne Rubis

Lorne Rubis

The constant in Lorne’s diverse career is his ability to successfully lead organizations through significant change. At US West, where he served as a Vice President / Company Officer, Lorne was one of only seven direct reports ...
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Character Triangle

Our character is exclusively ours. We define it by how we think and what we do. I believe that acting with Character is driven by what I call the Character Triangle.

What, exactly, is the Character Triangle (CT)?

The CT describes and emphasizes three distinct but interdependent values:

Be Accountable: first person action to make things better, avoiding blame.
Be Respectful: being present, listening, looking again, focusing on the process.
Be Abundant: generous in spirit, moving forward, minimizing the lack of.

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